When I was a little girl I spent time with my aunts while my Mom was off doing Mom things, like finishing up college and working. During times with the Aunties, things could get weird. They too were in college and used me for a guinea pig for all kinds of silly behavior tests. My reward was usually raisins, which I loved. My youngest Aunt, during this era, had a really sweet boyfriend who then became her husband but whom she eventually divorced because he was 'just not motivated enough when it came to the important things.' I'm not sure what that meant, since he was an artist and became a CPA to support his art habit, but my aunt eventually divorced him, which broke all of our hearts because we loved him. He was awesome. And he was much nicer, most days, than my aunt, but let's not get into that. Also, may he rest in peace. He somehow ended up with brain cancer, and he passed a couple of years ago. The world lost a sweet and gentle spirit when he left, and I ho...